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AOkay. Huh. So.
BThat kind of killed the mood.
AI mean.
BKilled the mood is fine. But the hair, what came up after that? Which was then she asked me, have.
AYou done this before?
BI'm like, no. So then she asked me like, like the background. How come? So background. Then that digraphed into a whole. She knew the background, I guess.
ADifferent.
BBits and pieces, but backgrounds are tied together. Then it kind of hit her. It's kind of weird. I was supposed to marry someone a year ago and now like.
AI explained.
BThe second part was just. I guess she was very cool about it. She's like, it's kind of funny. She's never dated an Indian guy before.
AOkay.
BSo like it's kind of funny.
ABut. No, but. So did she not know you were dating? No, she knew. Okay.
BBut I mean, I guess she hadn't processed.
ABut did she know engagement.
BSo I have been extremely honest.
ANo, no, but how did that conversation come up while having sex?
BBecause I was explaining why we never had sex.
AWhich. Okay, I get that. Part of which was also because of her conservative nature. Right? Not because of your parents. That might be. That might give me more context.
BOkay, so by actually bringing up the fact is.
AIn hindsight it was kind.
BOf good if we had had sex. I would have been more scared during that period because there would have been more ground for okay, Indian.
AWhile explaining why you not had sex. Okay, okay. And then. Yes, then the conversation went in that direction. Someone.
BBe quite weird if you have Bloom bench and boxes.
AAnyway, so anyway.
BKind of. Basically I'm lagging behind by at least four years.
AI don't think there's any lagging behind, bro. Anyway.
BCentral Park.
ADid you attend having sex again?
BKind of. So basically we, I mean, started making out. I think having sex is kind of a big deal. But I mean she's.
AShe.
BI'm not too concerned about this thing because a. Like I'm pretty good at bed. So love. And plus you seem extremely smart. So like I. I'm pretty sure you can learn very quickly. So anyway, but like yesterday we just like did well without penetration like usual. Like not usual. I mean just without penetration.
ARight.
BSo did that for a while and. I think like her periods are like different phases.
AConcern if she's so understanding. I mean, I don't think there's any lagging behind, bro. Sex is awkward only starting there. You need to communicate and figure out things that work for both of you. Mushka, you're there starting me first time? Yeah, my first time was also kind of weird. I think what's important is having effective communication. It's hard to do because you're both shy at the start, but okay, maybe not. But yeah, around you, I'm.
BI'm pretty bad at communication. She was basically just telling me last night, you're supposed to talk about these things. Which, honestly, I. I never thought so that was quite new to me. So anyway, I mean, she's made it very clear. She's having fun and everything. She's also looking for a relationship. But she's also made it pretty clear, you know, a lot of her. A lot of her friends, which are basically also my friend, a lot of her mutual friends have basically told her in the past, I'm a very good guy.
AIt just.
BIt's just going through my love. This was like a few months ago. So she's trying. She's just saying at this stage, I.
AI don't know if, like, this will become something bigger.
BI don't know if I like you enough or not. I guess I'll find out.
AFair enough.
BIt's still in that phase.
ASo. Yeah, this is one of the most fun phases, I think.
BExcept I would have hoped, like, kind.
AOf.
BLike even in this, like, there are multiple chances. I mean, take evalu. She did say she doesn't sleep before. Like sleep with a guy before. Like the fifth date or sixth date or something, actually. So I guess at least slow play. But she also just. I mean, you're just supposed to make a move and like, the girl is supposed to tell you if she's comfortable or not. Kind of trying to figure that out. I mean, still have to. Well, yeah, obviously it'll take another, like, week. Well up, depending on.
AYeah, one week. Ish. But I mean. Yeah, I don't. I don't. Yeah, I don't think it's a big deal. Just. Yeah, time will soothe it out.
BNot sure. Wasn't really sure who to talk to. And technically, Jack, it'll be you. It's kind of hard to get rid of.
AI mean, if she's also chill about.
BIt, then she's very chill about it.
APerfect. Like, to be honest with her, you're not that experienced and you will try to communicate better and do communicate.
BFair enough. Well, also another major reason she's dating me. Multiple reasons she's dating me. One is of a. I'm a quant. Like, I mean, she has a theory behind this which is unrelated to it being rich. It says a. Being ambitious.
ALike what kind of like.
BI mean, just education, key importance. Basically eugenics type arguments. Like Just everything. Like I've never found girls like that. If you figure 20% people think like this and then you sample by stem already. Not stem, but yeah, you know.
AI.
BMean.
AHe's like.
BShe completely broke the guy.
ABut also.
BAlso I think he has always dated girls who were like really fascinated by the whole IIT thing. He could be jealous and it was fine like actually.
ABut has he talked to you?
BSo he was. He called me once to talk to me. I thought more about it. So I start thinking about ashley.
AAnd. Last week, Saturday.
BI read a week I read eight weeks. Vacation.
AI think this is one of the best parts honeymoon. Pre honeymoon, pre honeymoon phase.
BI told her at least block the date for like Puerto Rico. So I was supposed to ask her later. But like it just came up naturally in the conversation. So I guess that part I just left the ball in our court. She also technically invited me to trip with her batchments to Alaska in March.
AOh, damn. I mean.
BWe'Re having fun.
AI don't think it's a big deal at all. It could have been if. If it depends on the girl how she interprets it, right? Like if you're saying she's chill and all through the chill.
BSorry. Experience was one thing and the other was it. It took a while to smooth out the whole with my baggage.
ASo.
BNot too many details.
AYou are officially dating.
BWe are dating for sure. Yeah. Not boyfriend, girlfriend or whatever. But.
AOh, by the way, I gave my skates shortening. $20.
B$20.
AOvernight. $20? $30. Yeah.
BNice.
AShe might also come sometimes. And concrete. He might stay over a couple of days. Maybe. Christmas tree. Ornaments. Yeah, but.
BI don't think I'll put it.
ALet me see. Fake.
BShake. Although I'm not sure.
AOh, it's arriving after Christmas. After. Before Christmas.
BIt has a.
A$18 60%. Yeah. Too early, bro. Too early. Yeah, perfume maybe. Max, don't spend too much.
BProblem with perfume is she already told me an anecdote.
ABut.
BBut that part I'm fine. Like I. I think I'm myself. Dating me. She like talk guys objectively that I can't.
ASo.
BOkay. So too early for Judy.
AYeah, dude.
BAnyway, the anecdote was Victoria's secret. It is out of bounds. And perfume is out of bounds.
APerfume you out of bounds.
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